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If you’re BIPOC (Black, Indigenous, or Person of Color) AND both Autistic and ADHD…

You might have noticed that ADHD and autism don’t always look the same in your life as they do in mainstream discourse about AuDHD.

In this post we’ll explore what AuDHD actually is, how it shows up for BIPOC adults, and why your unique cultural identity changes the experience.

This post touches on:

Understanding AuDHD as a BIPOC Adult
What is masking AuDHD?
Unique Systemic Challenges for AuDHD BIPOC Folks
How AuDHD Shows Up in Daily Life for BIPOC Adults
AuDHD, BIPOC, and Queer/Trans Identities
Practical Supports for AuDHD BIPOC Adults
Finding Community and Support for AuDHD BIPOC
Abolitionist, Strength-Based, and Embodied Approaches
Thriving on your own terms

Keep reading for more or watch as a YouTube video:

What does AuDHD looks like for BIPOC adults? How does being queer AND BIPOC shapes ADHD and autism traits and vice versa? Plus, why find community support is VITAL for thriving as a queer, BIPOC, and neurodivergent adult.

Understanding AuDHD as a BIPOC Adult

AuDHD is when someone is both ADHD (Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder) and Autistic.

It’s not just about “having two diagnoses.”

It’s a unique neurotype where executive function, sensory processing, social communication, and attention all interact in ways that are distinct from ADHD or autism alone.

“Your neurotype is the natural way your brain processes information, senses, and experiences the world. It’s not *better* or *worse” than anyone else’s. It’s just beautifully different wiring.”

Living with AuDHD as a BIPOC adult, you might notice the following traits in yourself:

You can dive deeply into passions, also known as hyper-focusing, sometimes losing track of time.
You have intense Special Interests in specific topics, but struggle with tasks outside your interest zone.
You have sensory sensitivities to bright lights, loud spaces, textures, or smells that can feel overwhelming or distracting.
You have executive function differences in the way you plan, organize, and switch tasks, which can feel exhausting.
You may jump between tasks or ideas quickly, or shift your attention rapidly, which can feel energizing or chaotic.
You may notice subtleties others miss in conversations - or feel drained by neurotypical social communication norms.

Find out what your biggest unmet neurodivergent/AuDHD needs are in this handy little pie chart.

How does being BIPOC affect us as AuDHDers?

Many BIPOC AuDHD folks go undiagnosed or misdiagnosed till adulthood because mainstream ADHD/Autistic narratives center white, neurotypical experiences.

This can make it super hard to recognize your neurodivergence or access supportive resources!

Also, you might have grown up in a family or community that stigmatizes, ignores, or doesn’t openly talk about neurodivergence.

This can create shame, self-doubt, or the need to mask your traits to “fit in.”

What is masking AuDHD?

“Masking is when ADHD, AuDHD, or Autistic folks hide or suppress our natural behaviors to fit into neurotypical or socially ‘acceptable’ norms.”

You might force yourself to maintain eye contact, hide stimming, or over-rehearse social interactions.

“Stimming is short for ‘self-stimulatory behavior.’ AuDHD folks engage in these repetitive movements, sounds, or other actions to regulate their emotions, manage sensory input, or express strong feelings.”

For AuDHD BIPOC folks, masking can also include downplaying cultural expression to assimilate into white-dominated spaces or managing family expectations alongside neurodivergent traits.

So why do we mask even though it is exhausting, affects our self-knowledge, and can worsen anxiety, depression, and burnout?

Well, it’s a survival strategy in a world not built to accept our authentic neurodivergent selves

Masking can help us stay safe and avoid judgment, punishment, or microaggressions.

Not everyone has the privilege or safety to unmask their AuDHD traits - and they should never be forced to do so!

Here’s why…

Unique Systemic Challenges for AuDHD BIPOC Folks

Many systemic barriers make diagnosis, support, and thriving harder for us. For example:

Doctors, therapists, and schools often overlook neurodivergence in BIPOC communities and delay diagnosis and access to accommodations.
Everyday interactions and racial microaggressions may assume you’re “lazy,” “difficult,” or “overreacting” instead of recognizing your neurodivergence.
Some families or communities stigmatize neurodivergence, prioritize collective needs over individual struggles, or discourage seeking outside support.
For Black and Brown AuDHD folks, navigating the world can be uniquely dangerous due to systemic racism. Hyperactivity, hyperfocus, emotional intensity, or stimming can be misread as defiance, aggression, or irresponsibility.
Cops and racist discrimination can escalate routine interactions with AuDHD BIPOC folks into life-threatening situations. This means many of us need vigilance, masking, and constant negotiation of environments not built for our safety or well-being.

Understanding these cultural factors affecting AuDHD experiences in BIPOC adults is the first step toward self-compassion, effective support, and thriving as your full, authentic self.

How AuDHD Shows Up in Daily Life for BIPOC Adults

Living as AuDHD BIPOC adults affects routines, relationships, and self-perception in ways that can often be misunderstood by our families and communities.

For example…

You might hide lifelong Special Interests that seem odd or childish to your family because few other people with your shared cultural background have those interests.
Juggling family gatherings and work can feel exhausting when you have executive function differences.
Attending a loud wedding or crowded festival might trigger sensory overload, leaving you drained. But cultural norms in your community may expect you to “tough it out” or suppress your emotions.
You may have spent years masking your AuDHD differences at school or work and internalized a lot of self-blame for those differences, on top of being in a racialized body that comes with its own set of challenges.

Recognizing how AuDHD traits appear in your life as a BIPOC adult helps you validate your experiences, stop blaming yourself, create realistic strategies, and prioritize your well-being.

AuDHD, BIPOC, and Queer/Trans Identities

Many AuDHD BIPOC adults also identify as LGBTQIA+, queer, trans, or non-binary.

This means that your neurodivergence and cultural background can intersect with your gender and sexuality in ways that DEEPLY shape your daily life, relationships, and self-expression.

For example, you might feel pressure to mask both neurodivergent traits and queerness around family or in cultural spaces.

Or your workplace interactions may require managing microaggressions related to race, neurodivergence, and LGBTQIA+ identity simultaneously.

Furthermore, queer and trans AuDHD BIPOC folks often face compounded barriers in accessing culturally competent care, safe community spaces, and affirmation.

It’s exhausting AF. That’s why recognizing these overlapping identities is crucial!

It helps us stop blaming ourselves for finding nearly every aspect of our lives - So. Damned. Hard.

So how do we begin?

We can start by connecting with peers, mentors, or coaches who have queer, trans, neurodivergent, and BIPOC LIVED experience.

Folks who GET IT can provide validation, strategies, and emotional support that match your lived reality.

This in turn can help you embrace your full self - neurodivergent, racialized, and queer.

You can reduce masking, honor your needs, and navigate life with more authenticity and ease.

Practical Supports for AuDHD BIPOC Adults

Living as AuDHD and BIPOC comes with unique challenges - but there are ways to create support systems that honor every facet of yourself.

Let’s be clear: there is no one-size-fits-all approach.

It often takes a lifelong journey to uncover what your AuDHD needs are, since they differ so much from person to person!

Once you’re diagnosed or you’ve realized you’re AuDHD, it could help you greatly to seek support for:

Executive function: how you plan, organize, and execute tasks and projects
Workplace accommodations (if it’s safe to do so at yours)
Meeting your sensory needs, e.g.:
- Are you sensory-seeking or sensory-avoidant?
- How do you like to stim?
- What are your sensory triggers?
Reconnecting with your Special Interests without shame
Unmasking your AuDHD traits (again, if it’s safe for you to do so)
Navigating autistic meltdowns, shutdowns, and burnouts
Community support from other AuDHD or Autistic BIPOC folks
Coaching and mentorship from an AuDHD BIPOC coach who’s been there, done that

Meeting these lifelong unmet AuDHD needs can help you navigate your daily life, honor your intersectional identities, and thrive as an AuDHD BIPOC adult without masking or compromising your wellbeing (in safe-enough spaces!).

Finding Community and Support for AuDHD BIPOC

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Like I mentioned earlier, finding people who “get it” can transform your daily life as a AuDHD BIPOC adult.

Peer support, culturally aware coaches, and neurodivergent BIPOC groups help you feel unmask safely, seen, understood, and validated.

They can help you navigate AuDHD alongside your cultural identity, queerness, and other lived experiences.

“Connecting with other AuDHD BIPOC folks can normalize experiences that mainstream narratives often erase. ”

Maybe it’s swapping strategies for managing sensory overload at family gatherings or sharing frustrations about workplace racial microaggressions.

If you’re seeking resources for BIPOC adults with ADHD and autism, start by exploring:

Online communities
Local support groups
Coaching that explicitly centers your identities.

Surrounding yourself with supportive, affirming AuDHD BIPOC folks can grow your resilience, joy, and ability to thrive personally, socially, and professionally.

Also, consider working with a culturally competent coach who has queer, BIPOC, and neurodivergent LIVED experience. (That’s me, by the way.)

I can provide support that respects your multiple identities, history, and community context.

Not only that, I can help you create coping strategies, communication practices, and routines that fit your unique rhythms.

Plus, my coaching that keeps in mind the REAL systemic barriers to your well-being.

That’s where my abolitionist, strength-based, and embodied approaches come in.

Abolitionist, Strength-Based, and Embodied Approaches

Traditional therapy and coaching often frames AuDHD traits as deficits or things that need to be fixed.

Can we be done with pathologizing our natural neurotypes already?!

Living as an AuDHD BIPOC individual comes with unique challenges, but it also comes with profound strengths.

Instead of framing your traits as deficits, abolitionist, strength-based, and embodied coaching empowers you to thrive in daily life - while staying grounded in your identity and community.

My specific brand of AuDHD support for BIPOC individuals focuses more on:

Being REAL about the root systemic causes of many of our AuDHD struggles (a.k.a. trying to exist in a world that was never built for us in so many ways)
Unlearning internalized racism, capitalism, and ableism
Amplifying what you naturally do well as an AuDHDer
Honoring your rhythms
Reconnecting with your body, the Land, and your Ancestors
Reclaiming your energy from systems that have historically devalued your brain, body, and culture
Care that goes beyond self-care and centers community care and collective liberation

For example, traditional advice often tells you to push through exhaustion or conform to rigid schedules.

Instead, embodied coaching teaches you to connect with your body, honor your natural energy cycles, and incorporate cultural practices that feel grounding.

Abolitionist coaching also encourages you to name and abolish the internalized ableism or capitalist pressure driving your behavior.

It encourages you to seek community support for responsibilities that are overwhelming your schedule.

Here’s another example.

Masking or mimicking neurotypical communication can be draining.

Strength-based coaching encourages you to experiment with ways of expressing yourself that feel authentic.

This might mean using written messages instead of impromptu verbal updates or setting clear boundaries about response times for emails or messages.

These approaches help you navigate daily life while honoring your body and culture, communicate effectively, and thrive in your communities while resisting oppressive expectations.

Thrive on your own terms

Hi there! My name is TQ (they/them), and I’m a queer, trans, AuDHD Asian coach who helps AuDHD BIPOC thrive on their own terms.

I specialize in supporting BIPOC, trans, queer, and neurodivergent folks through strength-based, abolitionist, anti-capitalist, and anti-ableist coaching.

If you’re ready to stop navigating this AuDHD BIPOC experience alone and start thriving on your own terms, I offer coaching for AuDHD BIPOC adults that centers your identity, culture, and lived experience.

Book a free consultation today to reclaim your energy, joy, and authenticity.

Let’s co-create strategies for self and collective care, communication, and daily life while dismantling internalized oppression and oppressive systems.

FAQ: AuDHD BIPOC Support and Resources

Q: What does AuDHD mean for BIPOC adults?

A: AuDHD is when you experience both ADHD and autism traits.

For BIPOC adults, these experiences can look different due to cultural expectations, systemic bias, and underdiagnosis.

Understanding your neurotype helps validate your experiences and access support that works for you.

Q: What are common challenges of being AuDHD and BIPOC?

A: You may face late diagnosis, microaggressions, masking, and cultural stigma around neurodivergence.

Racism can misread certain behaviors like hyper-focus or stimming as defiance, making it dangerous for AuDHD BIPOC adults to be themselves.

Q: How do queer and trans identities intersect with being AuDHD and BIPOC?

A: Many AuDHD BIPOC adults are also queer or trans, which adds layers to daily experiences, relationships, and self-expression.

Navigating neurodivergence alongside racial, cultural, and LGBTQIA+ identities can involve masking, microaggressions, and compounded stress.

Q: How can AuDHD BIPOC adults get support?

A: Practical strategies include executive function coaching, sensory accommodations, community support, and peer support from AuDHD BIPOC coaches.

The right support should help you meet your intersectional needs, reduce AuDHD burnout, and embrace your authentic neurodivergent identity.